I was surfing on Neowin the today, and I saw a post that struck a note close to home.

How do i learn to trust my g/f? Im wat you call a paraoid person. My g/f goes to a college about 4 hours away and we try to see each other once a month or more. She tells me that she loves me alot and all that stuff and that everybody she meets she tells them about me.

She hasn’t done anything wrong, but how do I learn to trust her, because I always find myself thinking the worst. I really do like her and want to trust her, but I’m as stubborn as a female about believing her.

We have been together for almost 2 years.

This sounded a LOT like what I had been through with my ex a few months back, so I felt like I needed to share some advice. My reply was as follows:

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